Young adults who lose a parent are forced to enter a new reality without that significant person in their life. The grief that follows can feel heavy, disorienting, helpless 鈥� and lonely.
As a way to cope with the loss of her father from cancer, photographer and model created a sharing some takeaways she learned about grief that she says no one talks about. Liz shares her story with host Anita Rao and talks about the shock of her sudden loss and how it changed her views on afterlife and spirituality.
is a grief educator and space holder who lost two mother figures when she was in her 20s. Naomi sought community and help within virtual support groups but often found that she was the only Black person present in those spaces. She talks to Anita about how this inspired her to go into grief work with a special focus on the needs and experiences of Black, queer folks like her.
Anita is also joined by , a writer and journalist who was 14 years old when his father had a psychotic break. He died of congestive heart failure 12 years later. Jeff contends with grief over a long period of time and the feelings of anger and frustration he had towards his father in a piece for .
Special thanks to Felicia, Tiona, Trevor, Sarah, Christine and Dulani for sharing their stories with us for this episode.
Please note: This episode originally aired September 8, 2023.
Tips from young adults on grieving a deceased parent
Join an affinity support group.
鈥淚 think one of the primary values of groups like that is that it reminds you that even though grief can be and is so isolating on so many levels, when you zoom out, there are so many other people who are having not maybe the same experience, but such a similar experience to you. And that itself can be so healing in grief.鈥�
- Naomi Edmondson, grief educator and space holder
Share their life stories with others.
鈥淚 do feel that when I am able to relay those stories to my friends, my family and make them laugh the same way that maybe he would make people laugh telling that story, it's a way for me to teach other people about him and have people get to know him鈥t's kind of nice to know that he still comes out through me.鈥�
- Liz Zorn, photographer and model
Make an ancestral altar in your home.
鈥淚 have pictures of her. I have candles. I add more pictures of other people in my family who have died as I kind of learn more about my family. But for me, that's the way that I connect to her. I make coffee. I offer water. I change it out regularly. I talk to her, even if it's not at my altar. I have these moments where I just remember she's not physically here, but that doesn't mean that I can't just talk to her.鈥�
- Naomi Edmondson, grief educator and space holder
